MILES APART

A lot of people says that having a relationship with someone far from each other is so impossible. They have these thoughts in mind that it won't last long. Why is it so?! Maybe because they had a feeling of unsecurity and maybe because they found it difficult for them to communicate with each other. 

I, myself had witnessed many of these cases. Such long distance relationship as we all called it. The term "long distance" may seem to said it all if you go deeper in it. Being in a long distance relationship is the most challenging relationship a couple will be encountering. Yes, there are many things that can happen and many things are needed to let this kind of relationship work out. 

Couples who are in this kind of situation are facing many hardships in life. They started to have more doubts than trust itself. More pains and sacrifices just to get things in the right way. But you know what's the BEST thing that can happen in a long distance relationship?!!! It's the feeling of excitement and faith that someday you two will be together. Hopes, wishes and goals that you two built even if you are far away from each other will someday come true. 

Holding on and keeping the faith especially the trust are a "MUST" to strengthen this kind of relationship. Without those for sure everything will not end the way you wanted it to be. 

Love your partner even if you were miles apart. And if you didn't fail to show and let them feel your love and care, you couples out there will surely live happily ever after. 

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STRANGERS

My first blog for the year 2014. Hooray for the year of the horse. 

Anyways, this blog is not actually about welcoming the year but welcoming someone in my life. Oh yes!! You know it. This is about one person who I almost fell inlove with. ALMOST!! 

He's nice, sweet, cool, fun to talk too and fun to be with. Funny person with a great sense of humor. He's a gentleman [proven] and I feel safe with him. 

We started to get to know each other through this social application which is called "WECHAT". We bumped into a room and I added him as a friend. Our conversation started on the 15th of December 2013. We chat for hours sometimes till dawn. We had video calls -- share and show each others moments. It was so heart warming just talking to him. Everyday greetings, reminders and stories are the coolest and the sweetest ones to be cherish. 

One unforgettable moment was when we had the chance to see each other. Be together, party together, sleep together -- just us together [with friends yes]. It was one of the happiest days of my vacation. There are those hugs and kisses given which are very comforting. 

Fact: I thought we would stay close like that for a long time. But things do really change and it was a bad change for me. Though it was happiness for him. He fell inlove with another woman and there's nothing I can do but to accept and move on. Hey, life is short as they say to keep hanging on to something which will never happen again or will never be yours. 

I am happy for him and I know that he's happy with her. I've moved on now and i am thankful for all the moments we shared together. Of course there are times I am missing him and everything we've been through. I can't hide the fact that sometimes I am asking myself why not me?! Why it's not me?! Maybe because we are just not meant to be. He is for her and I am for somebody else. 

Now, we are almost STRANGERS who just says Hi and Bye. But even if we are in this reality now all I can say is that no matter happens I am still here for him. Nothing changed and nothing will change. 

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FIVE SIMPLE RULES!!

Remember the FIVE simple RULES to be HAPPY:

1. Free your heart from hatred
2. Free your mind from worries
3. Live simply
4. Give more
5. Expect less

 No one can go back and make a brand new start. Anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.

 God don't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without rain, but He do promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears and light for the way.

 Disappointments are like road humps, they slow you down a bit but you enjoy the smooth road afterwards.Don't stay on the humps too long. Move on!

 When you feel down because you didn't get what you wanted, just sit tight and be happy because God is thinking of something better to give you.

  When something happens to you, good or bad, consider what it means. There's a purpose to life's events, to teach you how to laugh more or not to cry too hard.

  You can't make someone love you, all you can do is be someone who can be loved, and the rest is up to the person to realize your worth.

 The measure of love is when you love without measure.
 In life there are very rare chances that you'll meet the person you love and loves you in return. So once you have it, don't ever let go, the chance might never come your way again.

  It's better to lose your pride to the one you love than to lose the one you love because of pride.we spend too much time looking for the right person to love or finding fault with those we already love, when instead we should be perfecting the love we give.

 When you truly care for someone, you don't look for faults, you don't look for answers, and you don't look for mistakes. Instead, you forgive the mistakes, you accept the faults, and you overlook the excuses.

 Never abandon an old friend. You will never find one who can take his place. FRIENDSHIP is like wine, it gets better as it grows old :)





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